Thursday, July 12, 2007

Could You use a Good Cry? Join the club!

Time and clip again, I happen myself in the presence of an individual
who have come up to the end of their rope and demands healing. As they
cleave to that rope – wall hanging on for dear life - over one-half the time, by
the clip I close with prayer, crying are manifested, in work force and women,
as we swear Jesus Of Nazareth Of Nazareth to reconstruct their health, their relationships, their

Time and frost again, Jesus rans into them where they're at.

But why the tears? Why so often? It haps so often that I began to
chew over this question. I seemed to especially "strike a H2O main" when I
said the words, "God isn't huffy at you" to the people I was speaking
with. That's when the river would flow.

"You figure and record my wanderings; set my crying into Your bottle--
are they not in Your book?" - Psalm 56:8

Even Jesus Of Nazareth cried. The shortest poetry in Bible is Toilet 11:35:
"Jesus wept."

THE blessing OF CRYING

In a human race that states us "Big male children don't cry" and that we shouldn't
"cry over spilled milk," we shouldn't be "a shout baby" and are instructed,
"There, there, don't cry," as if that volition actually assist matters, we are
subconsciously programmed to believe that crying is actually a bad

It's NOT! It's a great thing; a necessary, God-given mechanism for
deep interior healing to take place. Not crying over losings and deceases
makes a 'burden' in the organic structure that we are not consciously aware of. Jesus Of Nazareth desires us to release that load to Him. We go so
accustomed to carrying a thing, often one makes not recognize that it is
even being dragged along like an unseeable ball and chain.

As I understand it, the nervous system travels into emphasis manner when our
organic structure comprehends a threat. At that time, the procedure of crying is suspended. It is only when a individual starts to loosen up - thus releasing the load they
weren't even aware of - that crying actually occurs. Physiologically
speaking, what's referred to as the parasympathetic nervous system nervous system is
responsible for relaxation. Crying is a parasympathetic nervous system activity, too. So people who are stressed out make not cry. But they are not happy either. We've all heard the phrase, "I necessitate a good cry." Truer words were
never spoken!

When person shouts over a loss, it intends the nervous system is getting
"comfortable" or is reaching a phase of accepting the loss. This causes
a balance between the sympathetic (stress producing) and the
parasympathetic nervous system (relaxation producing) parts of the nervous system. The
crying that affects heartache almost ALWAYS ends. Joy really bashes come up up
in the morning…and after the mourning.

Psalm 126:4-6 of The Message Book sets it like this, "And now, God,
make it again - convey rainfalls to our drought-stricken unrecordeds So those who
planted their harvests in desperation will shout hoorays at the harvest, So those
who went off with heavy Black Maria will come topographic point laughing, with armloads
of blessing."

"WHEN sorrows LIKE sea billows ROLL..."

Horatio Spafford wrote "It is well with my soul," af­ter respective trau­matic
events took place in his life The first was the decease of his lone boy in 1871,
shortly followed by the great Chi­ca­go Fire which ru­ined him fi­nan­cial­ly
(he had been a weal­thy bus­i­ness­man). Then in 1873, he had planned to
go to Europe with his household on the S. S. Ville Du Havre, but sent the
household ahead while he was delayed on business. While cross­ing the
At­lan­tic, the ship sank rapidly after a hit with an­o­ther ship, and all
four of Spaf­ford's daugh­ters died. Spaf­ford's married woman Anna sur­vived and
sent him the now fa­mous tel­e­gram, "Saved alone." Shortly afterwards,
as Spaf­ford traveled to ran into his bereaved wife, he was inspired to compose
the anthem as his ship passed near where his daugh­ters had died (see
words below).

One morning, as I was headed to curate to my ain boy who was
struggling with drug addiction, as I was heading for the door, the Holy Place
Spirit led me to catch a smattering of photographs of him as a child. During
counseling, I asked him to talk to that small male kid - to the child in the
photographs- to inquire his forgiveness. Uncomfortably at first, he held the
images and stared, shifting in his chair. Finally, he said, "I'm so sorry. I didn't intend for your life to turn out this way…" Helium began to cry,
harder than any adult male I've ever seen cry.

He hasn't used drugs since, glorification to God.

Recently, I spoke with a pretty immature female parent of three, a kitchen worker. She was jovial, had a very pleasant disposition. But after I prayed, her
eyes were filled with tears. I asked what was incorrect and she replied,
"We're in a hole…everything's falling apart." That pretty smiling was a

In my ain life, through my ain trials and pain, I've cried a river. In the
darkest hr of my soul, alone with my Creator, ready to open up up a vein,
having wrestled with the Spirit of Suicide all night, He stopped me,
assuring me that joyousness would come up in the morning.

It did.

"Although crying may fill up your night, joyousness come ups with the morning."
- Psalm 30:5.

On another occasion, at 3AM, I felt compelled to anoint my ain caput
with oil. As soon as I returned to bed, I saw a achromatic and achromatic "film'
being played on the wall antonym the ft of my bed. It was one shot
after another of lonely, hurting, crying people. My bosom was breaking. I felt their pain. I couldn't halt crying. Even after blowing my nose,
washing my human face and returning to bed, the "movie' started again. So
did my tears.

I mention to that as the nighttime of my bosom surgery. Prior to that, Iodine was a
self-serving, self-centered, all-about-me, back-stabbing my manner to the
top of my industry kinda guy.

These days, after having gone through some eminent hells myself,
I rejoice in that I don't odor like smoke.

I rejoice that it is well with my soul.


When Jesus Of Nazareth stood in the synagogue, He opened up the Scriptures and
read about Himself from what was to go known as Isaiah 61. He read:
"The Spirit of the Autonomous Godhead is on me, because the Godhead have
anointed me to prophesy good news to the poor. He have sent me to bind
up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and release
from darkness for the prisoners…"

"Bind up the brokenhearted?" Friends, they're everywhere, trust me. Iodine
see them every day.

"Proclaim freedom for the captives?" Many are in slavery and they
don't even cognize it. In some cases, it won't be revealed until they cry.

"Release from darkness for the prisoners?" One day, as I was speaking
to a adult female on a staircase, during a 5-minute conversation, she mentioned
to me that SHE was the ground why all three of her matrimonies ended in
divorce. "I'm an alcoholic," she confessed, shyly. Within the adjacent 60
seconds, she was in tears. Since that day, she talks openly about her
religion and have started attending church. She was in darkness and, suddenly,
saw the prison house gate was unfastened just a crack, just for a moment. She made
a interruption for it, desperately seeking freedom.

I believe she's establish it.


Are you crying?

Do you need to?

When you advocate others, make THEY cry?

My wife, Barbara, states the narrative of a miss she was working with whose
sad visage betrayed her. She felt led to pray with the miss but missed
one chance after another. Finally, the work twenty-four hours was over and the
immature lady was nowhere to be seen. My married woman asked the Holy Place Spirit for
another chance, feeling certain that He had spoken to her.

The adjacent day, certain enough, the two were paired-up again. Barbara asked
forgiveness of the immature lady, saying that she knew Supreme Being wanted her to pray
with her the twenty-four hours before. The miss began to well-up with crying and told me
married woman that today was the day of remembrance of her son's death. Barbara prayed
while the lady cried. They embraced. Healing had taken place.

God, usage us all in that manner on a day-to-day basis. Amen!

Every blessing,
Michael Tummillo
Type A retainer of God

It is well with my soul

When peace like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea surges roll;
Whatever my lot, Thousand hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.


It is well, with my soul,
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Though Shaytan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest self-assurance control,
That Jesus have regarded my incapacitated estate,
And hath cast His ain blood for my soul.

My sin, oh, the blissfulness of this glorious thought! My sin, not in portion but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, congratulations the Lord, Type O my soul!

And Lord, hastiness the twenty-four hours when my religion shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump card shall resound, and the Godhead shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.

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